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Relative Visit and Athlete Assignment

The guest’s visit does not rewrite the coach’s task.

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Companion to When a Relative Comes to Watch, Keep the Athlete’s Assignment Clear.

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Hypothetical example: a parent confirms a relative’s viewing place and leaves the child’s assigned waiting routine unchanged instead of adding an impress-the-guest goal.

01Ask what being watched seems to mean

Hear the child’s specific concern about the visitor.

02Clarify the relative’s actual role

Clarify the relative’s actual role and words.

03Return to one current assignment

Name the current coach-assigned task.

04Keep the afterward conversation ordinary

Agree on an ordinary afterward conversation.

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