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Sarcasm, Meaning, and Plain Instruction Page

Give the instruction without making the child decode it.

Fifteen minutes for one focused reading or decisionFree · Two-page fillable PDF

Companion to When Your Child Takes an Adult’s Sarcastic Remark Literally.

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Hypothetical example: a parent replaces a sarcastic doorway remark with a clear shoe instruction and owns the unkind part instead of blaming the child for misunderstanding.

01Words and meaning

Hear the difference before assigning a motive.

02Plain direction

Make the action and finish line visible.

03Repair owed

Separate the task from the adult’s unkind conduct.

04Next moment

Try the clear instruction before judging conduct.