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A Respectful Restaurant Request

Correct the words. Make the request. Repair briefly.

15 minutes to prepare and practiceFree · Two-page fillable PDF

Companion to What to Say When a Child Is Rude to a Server.

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Example: a wrong drink arrives. The child practices “Excuse me, I ordered water,” while the adult handles any urgent concern.

01Name the moment

Separate the service issue from disrespect.

02Practice the request

Give the child words a worker can respond to.

03Make a repair

Keep the apology brief and respectful.

04Prepare the next meal

Practice a single habit before going out.