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Shared Meal Request and Serving Plan

Answer the request before judging the eater.

Fifteen minutes for one current household decisionFree · Two-page fillable PDF

Companion to Answer a Portion Request Without Turning Dinner Into a Character Test.

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Hypothetical example: an adult checks what is actually available, answers a second-helping request courteously and handles a hot serving dish for the child.

01Hear the request

Record the actual serving request without a motive label.

02Check the arrangement

Check available food and applicable care arrangements.

03Give the answer

Give a clear adult serving answer.

04Review the table

Review one practical table adjustment.